So, you realized everything you knew about being a swinger was a complete lie. You’re welcome. And maybe after reading that story, you and your partner were like: “Well, since it’s not all old people with robes, watching you with somebody else might be kind of exciting...” Or maybe not. But either way, if you’re even remotely considering getting into it -- with your spouse, a significant other, or just that really cool friend with benefits you met on Tinder -- there are a few things you should know before you get started. We asked a group of people how swingers looking for group sex and what those "things" are, and this is what they told us.